In terms of the dark self-doubt and negative space, there a few things that I’ve found very helpful. Because we all experience that, or most humans do. There are maybe some mutants out there who don’t, but I’ve spent time with a lot of successful people. You
know some very successful people, obviously. And everyone, I think, has moments of self-doubt and negative spirals.
So a few things that help me tremendously. The first is a book with a terrible title and great content, but it’s called How to Stop Worrying and Stop Living by Dale Carnegie, that is not his best-known book, but I think one of his most helpful.
How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie. Also a huge winner. I haven’t listened to it, but I’ve read it several times. It is on my bookshelf about 12 feet to my right. It sits there as a constant reminder. It’s kind of a “break glass in case of emergency” book.
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I'm a big fan of a lot of his work, in particular not the How to Win Friends and Influence People, but How to Stop Worrying and Stop Living, which I think is a fantastically well written book on anxiety. There’s a bit of material on the physiology and so on that’s outdated but the vast majority is fantastically well done.
One of the great fears many of us face is that despite all our effort and striving, we will discover at the end that we have wasted our life. In A Guide to the Good Life, William B. Irvine plumbs the wisdom of Stoic philosophy, one of the most popular and successful schools of thought in ancient Rome, and shows how its insight and advice are still remarkably applicable to modern lives.
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